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Diclegis…God Bless You.

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Morning sickness might have you throwing up last night’s dinner, but there’s no need to throw up last week’s pay check too.

 

Pharmacist: Alright sir, your total comes out to $743.36

Me: Ummm, I think my wife is just going to have to suffer for a few more weeks.

Pregnancy is expensive.  I knew this going in, but I figured the bulk of the costs would stem from the pregnancy itself.  Most health insurance plans have a “pregnancy co-pay” up front that covers a few doctors visits and a couple of ultrasounds before the delivery.  Then, they hit you with the big bill, hospital fees, doctor fees, epidural fees, delivery fees, etc.  I wasn’t expecting a large bill for anti-nausea/morning sickness meds.  Not forking out $700 for nausea meds might have been a wise financial decision…but it definitely was NOT the best “supportive husband” decision.  I vividly remember the look of terror on Kialy’s face when I returned home without the Diclegis.  Follow along at your own risk.

 

So here’s what happened.  Kialy started experiencing morning sickness around the 13th week.  She wasn’t throwing up (at first), but she was extremely nauseous, and working the night shift sure wasn’t helping.  Thankfully the onset of this morning sickness coincided with one of her scheduled doctor’s visits.  During the appointment, her doctor recommended trying out Diclegis, and she conveniently had a free week’s sample.  The Diclegis starting to kick in after a few days and the nausea disappeared, but after a week she was out of samples so we had her doctor order a prescription.

When I went to fill the prescription I was shocked to find out that our insurance didn’t cover it, and on top of that, they wouldn’t accept the $30 coupon I had, without her doctor filling out a ton of paperwork, and last, it was going to cost $700+.  So naturally, being the cheap ass that I am, I left with free prenatal vitamins instead.  Once she got past the initial shock of me coming home empty handed, it really wasn’t that bad.  She called her doctor up and asked for more free samples, and I picked up 3 weeks worth of samples up the next day.

The reason I wanted to share this story is because it’s easy to just accept that pregnancy is expensive and shell out tons of $$$ without even thinking twice.  And sure a lot of it is expensive, but you have to know when to call B.S.

If your wife has bad morning sickness, here are a few pointers that could help you save some $$$:

  • There’s nothing magical about Diclegis.  All it is, is unisom and vitamin b6, both drugs you can get over the counter, but Diclegis IS time released so you take it once or twice a day and your covered.
  • There are plenty of alternatives out there.  Be sure you check your insurance before having your doctor call in a prescription.  Zofran is another popular morning sickness drug that is covered by most insurance providers, and it doesn’t make you sleepy like Diclegis.
  • Ask your doctor for FREE samples!  They have tons of this shit just sitting in a closet in their office.  They are usually more than happy to hand the stuff out like candy, unless they’re hoarding it for themselves… and well, if you have any leftover…you know what the going rate is…

A Trip To Mexico, $3,500. 6 Pregnancy Tests, $36. Becoming a Baby Daddy, Priceless.

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Learning that you’re going to be a father for the first time is an exhilarating feeling. Here was my immediate thought process.

 

OMG babe I am so excited!
Are you sure I’m the father?
Holy shit I’m going to be a father.

It truly is an amazing whirlwind of emotion.

I have been wanting to start a “personal” blog for quite some time now, but it seems as though every time I get a good idea for a witty domain main and blog topic, Netflix releases a new season of House of Cards…How do you compete with that?  Now that Kialy is almost 20 weeks pregnant, in true procrastination form, I figured NOW would be an excellent time to document this journey.

As a warning to my readers, I have never done this before, so please do not hold me accountable for any parenting mistakes you might make as a result of reading this blog.  In fact I hope you will be able to learn from the many mistakes I am sure to make.


“A smart man learns from his mistakes. A wise one learns from the mistakes of others.”


 

My goal for this blog is simple.  Inspire more people than I offend.  I figure if I set that bar low, I am sure to succeed.  I would also like to use this blog as evidence to my children in the future, that their father was once a pretty cool & witty dude.

I’ve always been fascinated by the internet’s ability to connect people.  It’s amazing how open people are willing to be in the hope that they might connect with someone, somewhere…No i’m not talking about Ashley Madison…  This blog is my attempt to be open in the hope that I am able to connect with others who have gone through or are currently going through similar experiences.  I also hope that when you’re bored at work and tired of hitting the refresh button on Yahoo’s home page, that you’ll find entertainment & inspiration in this blog.

Enough of the sappy stuff…

 

For those who don’t know us, I figured it would be beneficial to share some details to help set the stage for the many blog posts to come.

My wife Kialy, pronounced “Kylie”, and I have been married for just over a year.  She found out she was pregnant back in September, the day after my 26th birthday.  She’s a labor & delivery nurse, which is comforting knowing she knows what to expect when you’re expecting…see what I did there?

walking married

Now me on the other hand, am not a nurse, and have a hard time pronouncing most prescription drugs.  My degree is in accounting, but I have spent the last two years in software sales.  My true passion is music.  In college I played guitar in the band “Airplanes,” and I still operate a small home recording studio, working with local St. Louis artists.  I’m sure that’s all about to change!

In fear of giving you enough information to steal my identity…I’m going to end it here.  Be sure to subscribe to my weekly news letter to stay up to date with all of my posts!

-Tom (pronounced, “Tom”)

For the story on how the name “Mandoula” came about, be sure to visit the About Us page.

 

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